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Bisaya mom. Drama fan. Figuring it out one episode at a time.

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Betrayal
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Is It Them, or Is It You? How to Spot a Narcissist

Alright, let’s talk about something a little less fun than personality quizzes: narcissists. We’ve all encountered them, or at least suspected we have. They can be charming, infuriating, and sometimes downright exhausting. So, how do you spot one? Let’s break down some common red flags and mannerisms. The Charm Offensive (and Its Quick Demise) At first, narcissists can be incredibly magnetic. They might shower you with compliments, seem genuinely interested in your life (at least superficially), and make you feel

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Xavy's Mom 19.03.2025 No Comments

Gaslighted? Now what?

Moving on after enduring the emotional turmoil of gaslighting is a courageous journey towards reclaiming one’s identity and rebuilding a shattered sense of self. Gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation that distorts reality, leaves victims questioning their perceptions and self-worth. However, the path to healing is marked by resilience and self-compassion. The first crucial step in moving on is acknowledging the reality of the gaslighting experience. Trust your instincts and validate your emotions, recognizing that the manipulation was not a

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Xavy's Mom 21.11.2023 No Comments