“Have faith that true love is meant to be and one day love will come shining through. No matter how sad your heart is, the love that you wish for will come true…if you believe.“
When a relationship is over, it’s time to let go. Holding on to a past love clutters up your heart and mind. Letting go opens up the space and possibilities to attract the partner of your dreams. Try these things to stop dwelling on the relationship you had with your ex.
1. Listening to love songs that remind you of him
2. Going to places where you spent time together
3. Thinking about the good times you had together
4. Communicating with him (erase his phone number, email address, texts, etc.)
5. Being friends with benefits or being the other woman
6. Wishing and hoping that he’ll come back to you
7. Being in denial that it’s over
8. Looking at his pictures, cards, love letters and his Facebook page
9. Staying in contact with his friends and family
10. Talking continually about him with your friends, family and anyone who will listen
11. Trying to run into him in bars and nightclubs
12. Looking for him on online dating sites
13. Trying to make him jealous by flirting with or connecting with his male friends
14. Letting yourself get rundown (i.e. over-eating, not exercising, etc.)
14 things to start doing now:
2. Be grateful for the wonderful things in your life
3. Find your passions and focus on them
4. Get healthy from the inside out
5. Focus on the present moment and know that all is well
6. Connect and spend time with your family and friends
7. Enjoy hobbies and activities that you’ve been meaning to do
8. Do things to refresh, renew and soothe your soul
9. Exercise and workout
10. Listen to uplifting music
11. Keep a journal
12. Read positive books
13. Create a bucket list and start doing things on your list
14. Apply lessons (what you’ve learned) from your past relationships to create your ideal love life
Xavy & Mom 